Telling Your Family About Your Girlfriend's Pregnancy


Discovering that you and your girlfriend are expecting a baby can be a moment filled with a mix of emotions, from excitement to apprehension, especially when you're young. One of the first significant challenges you may face is sharing this news with your family. At Crossroads Resource Center, serving Moses Lake and Ephrata, WA, we understand the complexities of this situation. This blog aims to guide you through the process of telling your family about the pregnancy, ensuring that it's done in a respectful, understanding, and supportive manner.

We'll cover everything from preparing for the conversation to handling different reactions and seeking support. It's about making this experience as positive as possible for everyone involved.

Preparing for the Conversation

Before you talk to your family, it's important to have a clear plan. Discuss with your girlfriend how you both want to share the news, and consider all possible reactions. Being prepared can help you feel more confident and calm during the conversation.

Choosing the Right Time and Place

Timing and setting are crucial. Choose a moment when you won't be rushed or interrupted, and a place where everyone feels comfortable. This thoughtful approach shows your family that you're taking the situation seriously.

Being Honest and Direct

Honesty is key. Be clear and direct about the situation, but also be sensitive to your family’s feelings. It's important to express your own emotions and plans for the future, which can include exploring options like parenting and adoption, or learning more about the services offered at Crossroads Resource Center that can help you through this time.

Anticipating Different Reactions

Families react in various ways to such news. Some may be supportive, while others might need time to process the information. Be ready for a range of emotions and try to remain understanding and patient.

Discussing Next Steps

After breaking the news, discuss what comes next. Whether it's planning for the baby, considering adoption, or exploring other options, it’s important to talk about the steps you're planning to take.

Seeking Support and Guidance

Remember, you're not alone. Seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or community resources can provide valuable guidance and reassurance. At Crossroads Resource Center, we’re here to provide you a safe space to share your thoughts, feelings, and worries. You will be met with a listening ear free of judgment. 

Dealing with Negative Reactions

If the reaction is negative, try to stay calm and give your family some space. It’s important to protect your own emotional well-being during this time. While we don’t offer professional counseling at Crossroads Resource Center, we can provide resources and community referrals to help you navigate these challenges.

Communicating with Your Partner

Throughout this process, maintaining open communication with your girlfriend is crucial. Support each other and make decisions together. Our Pregnancy Testing and Ultrasound services are available to help you both understand what to expect in the coming months.

Wrapping Up

Telling your family about your girlfriend’s pregnancy is a significant step that requires courage, honesty, and sensitivity. At Crossroads Resource Center in Moses Lake and Ephrata, WA, we are here to support you and provide information on the options and services available to you both during this time.


If you need guidance or have any questions about pregnancy and the options available, please reach out to us. Visit our contact page to schedule an appointment or learn more. Remember, you’re not facing this alone, and there are resources and people ready to support you on this journey.


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